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Benjamin Goldstein, 93 of West Hartford passed away on Sunday, March 13, 2016. He was the husband of Kayleen Kagan Goldstein, the highlight of his life for 65 years. The son of Harry and Fannie Goldstein, Ben was born and raised in Hartford. A graduate of Weaver High School class of 1940, he attended Northwestern University and graduated from the University of Hartford with a degree in Public Administration. In 1946, he was appointed to the Hartford Police Department and retired as Deputy Chief in 1968. Mr. Goldstein then served as Deputy Director of the Connecticut Justice Commission and numerous boards and commissions under five governors. He had a distinguished military career for 33 years in the Connecticut National Guard, which included active duty with General Patton’s 3rd Army in World War II and in Korea with the 24th Infantry Division from 1951-1952, retiring as a Lieutenant Colonel. Active in the Jewish War Veterans Post 45 for many years, Ben was an early post commander. He was a member of the Board of Trustees of Rocky Hill Veterans Hospital and for over ten years was a probation officer volunteer in the Circuit Court System. Ben was a longtime member of Beth Hillel Synagogue, and served as vice president and a member of the board of directors for many years. Besides his wife Kayleen, he is survived by his wonderful children, Sharon and Alan Budkofsky, Jeffrey and Christine Goldstein, and Amy Goldstein, devoted grandchildren, Alyssa Budkofsky, Marc Budkofsky and his wife Jillian, Adam Goldstein and his fiancée Lauren Greider and Jennifer Goldstein, sister-in-law and brothers-in-law, Tovia and Bert Sillman, David and Barry Kagan, and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a brother, Lt. Arnold Goldstein of the Hartford Fire Department. Funeral services will take place at 1:00 PM on Tuesday, March 15, 2016 in the Chapel of the Weinstein Mortuary, 640 Farmington Avenue, Hartford with Rabbi David J. Small officiating. The interment will follow in the Hartford Mutual Society Cemetery, Wolcott Rd., East Granby. Shiva will take place at the home of Sharon and Alan Budkofsky following the funeral on Tuesday, and Wednesday and Thursday from 1:00-4:00pm and 7:00-9:00pm. Donations can be made to a charity of the donor’s choice. For further information, directions, or to sign the guest book for Ben, please visit online at www.weinsteinmortuary.com/funerals.cfm.

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Deceased On:

Thursday, January 1, 1970

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Thursday, January 1, 1970

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From: James Throwe

From South Windsor, Ct

Posted On: March 18, 2016

Benny was a friend in the CTARNG in West Hartford where he commanded the 172d.Also as a police officer we asked him to be South Windsor's first Police Chief but he turned it over to Chief Kerrigan. Although I haven't seen him recently I have fond memories of a terrific guy
BG (ret) Jim Throwe

From: Leila and David Fisher

From East Orleans, MA

Posted On: March 16, 2016

Kayleen, we are deeply sorry for your great loss, and to Tovia and her family, we lament the passing of an extraordinary man. We send our sincere condolences to each of you; we are so sorry and share your sadness. Leila and David Fisher

From: Jhenny

From Windsor, CT

Posted On: March 14, 2016

Amy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
Love,
Jhenny and Michael Volpe

From: Carla petrosky

From Waterbury, CT

Posted On: March 14, 2016

My dear pal Benny it was an honor to take care of you and I'll always keep the note you wrote for me that I was you gal I love you Benny u treated me like family

From: Esta Snider

From Sarasota, FL

Posted On: March 15, 2016

Good neighbor,good friend,great man.Rest in peace. Esta Snider

From: Jay B. Levin

From New London, CT

Posted On: March 15, 2016

Ben, Was a beloved friend and mentor over many years. For a young man whose father had recently died he guided me personally and on the job. He was witty, warm, wonderful and highly accomplished, I will never forget him.

Please provide me withe Budkofskys' address so I might send a personal note of condolence. Many thanks, Jay Levin

From: Bernie Sullivan

From Glastonbury, Ct

Posted On: March 15, 2016

When I entered the HPD Academy in 1964 Ben was the Commanding Officer. Ben was ahead of his time and on the forefront of the changing world of policing. As I advanced through the ranks Ben was always there with a good work or a good nudge. Through Ben I met several people in the community including the famous Manny at his Blue Hills Deli! During my tenure as Chief of the Dept. Ben would call or come and have coffee with me occasionally and share the wisdom of his life experiences .Ben was truly impacted by his war experience but in a way that made him a better person. He was a mentor to many and will be missed .He is probably already recruiting angels to his way of thinking. God speed on your journey my friend.,

From: Diane Salm

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: March 15, 2016

Dear Sharon and Alan,

So sorry to hear about the loss of your father and father in law.
Diane Salm

From: Marlene Sigal

From South Windsor, ct

Posted On: March 15, 2016

So sorry for your loss all thoughts and prayers to all of you. Marlene Sigal, Jeff Sigal, and family. Rosalyn and Norman Shotten

From: Lonnie & Michael Scheinblum

From Guilford, CT

Posted On: March 13, 2016

So many loving memories of our dear family friend, Benny, who was a warm & sweet "gentle man" - always there for Holtman / Scheinblum family occasions with that special grin of encouragement & support. We extend sincere condolences to the entire Goldstein family; may Benny finally rest in peace so well deserved!

Sincerely,
Lonnie & Michael Scheinblum & Family

From: Harvey wallet

From BOCA RATON,, FL

Posted On: March 13, 2016

WE WERE BACK YARD NEIGHBORS HE WAS A WONDERFUL PERSON SO FRIENDLY ....HE WILL BE MISSED..HARVEY WALLET

From: Marie Zipadelli

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: March 16, 2016

Amy: So sorry to hear about the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. Marie

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