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Ellen

(Weber)

Banks

Obituary

Ellen (Weber) Banks, 72 years of age, of Bloomfield, CT and New York City, beloved wife of Morris W. Banks died February 20, 2014 after a courageous two year battle with cancer. Ellen was born in New York City on December 2, 1941, the only daughter of the late Estelle F. and Louis M. Weber. She attended the Fieldston School in Riverdale, NY and graduated from Brandeis University before returning to New York City where she embarked on her career as a copy editor, first with the American Society of Civil Engineers and then with the Commercial Division of Holt, Rinehart and Winston. It was in the City where she met and married Moe before moving to Hartford in 1965, where she continued her career first with Wilson, Haight and Welch, advertising, and then with the Connecticut Jewish Ledger. Ellen enjoyed traveling, most particularly to her favorite place, London, and especially Wimbledon, not surprising given Ellen’s great love for tennis. Ellen enjoyed many seasons of tennis, first at the Golf Club of Avon and later at the Hartford Tennis Club where she made many treasured friends. Besides Moe, Ellen leaves her wonderful and devoted sons, Jeremy T. Banks and his dear wife, Marcia of Ellington, CT, and Lorin “Mitch” Banks of Arlington, MA. Ellen adored her two beautiful grandchildren, Emma Grace Banks and Andrew Jameson Banks. Ellen was fortunate in not only having a close and devoted family, but also in having many fabulous friends, due to her warmth, sincerity, open, caring and friendly personality, who blessed her final months and weeks with their kindness, visits and phone calls that our family will always appreciate and cherish. The family would also like to offer our gratitude to Doctors Joel Miller and Robert Siegel for their professionalism and friendship while attending to Ellen during her illness. Also we want to express our appreciation to the wonderful and caring staff at Caleb Hitchcock Health Center at Duncaster. Funeral services will be held at 1:00 PM on Monday, February 24, 2014 in the Sanctuary of Beth El Temple, 2626 Albany Avenue, West Hartford, CT 06117 with Rabbi James Rosen officiating. Interment will follow at the Emanuel Synagogue Cemetery, 1361 Berlin Turnpike, Wethersfield, CT. Following the interment, the family will receive friends at Beth El Temple. A memorial period (shiva) will be observed Monday and Tuesday at Ellen’s home, 2 Wyndcliffe Park, Bloomfield, from 6:00-8:00 PM. Ellen would have appreciated donations in her memory to Animal Friends of Connecticut, P.O. Box 370306, West Hartford, CT 06137 or Our Companions, P.O. Box 956, Manchester, CT 06045, motivated by her “Star” whom she rescued and who gave her great enjoyment for many years. Arrangements are entrusted to Weinstein Mortuary, Hartford. For further information, directions, or to sign the guest book for Ellen, please visit online at www.weinsteinmortuary.com/funerals.cfm.

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From: Ruth Galanter

From Los Angeles, CA

Posted On: June 5, 2014

Fieldston classmate. I am so sorry to hear of Ellen's passing. I have two especially fond memories. Each of our mothers took us, separately, to Williamsburg during spring vacation of 7th grade. We had a wonderful time getting to know each other. Had little contact throughout the rest of school, but at the 1989 reunion when I took the mike to thank everyone who had written to me during an extended recovery from nasty injuries, Ellen ran over and threw her arms around me, saying "I would have written if I'd known." And I really really knew that she would have. She was like that. I had hoped to see her again.

From: Fay Merkin clymer

From East Lyme, CT

Posted On: March 12, 2014

It's been many years since my days at Doctor Sucoll's(z"l) office and since my nephew,Brian Becker, worked with you as a lawyer...but I do remember you Moe..my sincerest condolences on the loss of your wife Ellen.May she rst-in-peace..G-d Bless you and yours

From: Carole and Paul Fox

From Bloomfield, CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

We were so fond of Ellen - an adorable little imp - her devotion to her family and Star - a great loss for her - and for all of us who understood her grief.

Her wonderful Moe, her partner in life and her protector always in sickness- her beautiful grandchildren, their parents and especially her amazing son Loren, by her side throughout. We will never have another Starbucks Mocha without thinking of Ellen.

It was an honor and a privilege to have known Ellen during her life here at Balbrae. We will miss her and remember her in our hearts always with love.

From: Margery D. Weinbaum

From New Britain, Ct., CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

I spent many happy years with Ellen enjoying the opera, New York City, foreign films, and bridge. We both shared an all consuming love of dogs and watched Westminster "on the phone" many times. She was also a favored bridge partner. I shall greatly miss her sharp intellect, exuberant personality, and loving ways. Stuart and I would like to express our deepest sympathy to the entire family. Ellen will be remembered as a fine wife,mother, friend, and as a true lady.

From: elsa and peter gassner

From sedona, az

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Dear Mo,
Sending our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family upon the loss of Ellen. You are in our thoughts during this very sad time.
fondly,elsa and peter gassner

From: Dick Bernstein

From Boca Raton, FL

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Pleae accept my condolences I know from our discussions that it was a hard fought battle.
Dick Bernstein

From: Ben Isaacson

From Avon, CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

I have known Auntie Ellen my whole life. She was a wonderful, fun person. I can still hear her laugh. She was always lit up anyplace she was.
As hard as it is to not have her with us anymore she will hopefully live on in all those whose lives she has touched.

From: Irwin and Eva Hausman

From West Palm Beach, Fl

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Our heartfelt sympathies to Moe and family. Now that Ellen is freed from her suffering may she rest in peace.

From: Stuart & Kate

From Hitchin, UK

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Ellen was loved in the UK too. We are deeply saddened at the loss of our wonderful friend.

Rest in Peace Ellen, our memories will stay with us forever.

From: Ellen Phillips

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Dear Moe: My thoughts are with you, your sons and all of your family during this difficult time. Ellen was a very special lady. She will be missed.

From: Susan & Marty Kaufman

From Scottsdale, AZ

Posted On: February 21, 2014

So sorry we can't be with you at this time. I feel so blessed that just a few weeks ago I was able to spend many days with Ellen and you Moe.
Please know how much she has meant to us and how much we appreciated what a wonderful friend and woman Ellen always was to so many.
Our love to you all, wishing you strength and comfort. May Ellen now have eternal rest and never be without chocolates.

From: HARVEY J. WALLET

From DELRAY BEACH, Fl.

Posted On: February 21, 2014

MOE SO SORRY SHE WAS A NICE PERSON VERY FRIENDLY WHEN I SAW HER...HJW

From: Tracy (Sullivan) Hudak

From Winsted, CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

I used to work with Ellen at the Jewish Ledger. I'll never forget the fact that she saved me on my first day at the Ledger. It was the end of the work day, and most people had left the office. I had an allergic reaction, and she quickly took me to the local walk-in clinic to be treated. I was lucky to have known her. My condolences go out to her family and friends.

From: Robert Birnbaum

From W. Hartford, Ct

Posted On: February 21, 2014

I was so sorry to learn of Ellen's passing. Although I'm in Florida, my thoughts are very much with you and your family.

Bob

From: Sandra Goldberg

From West Hartford, Ct

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Dear Moe and Family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the passing of Ellen and know that our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Fondly,
Sandy and Bruce

From: Julie Casway

From Boynton Beach, FL

Posted On: February 21, 2014

I have many fond memories of Ellen- I played tennis with her for mny years. Also, one of my children went to school with her younger son so we had more in common. She was always fun to be with and very outgoing. She will be truly missed in many ways. Julie

From: malcolm casway

From boynton beach, fl

Posted On: February 21, 2014

dear banks family,when i heard this news i had to sit down and reflect on the past yrs. this was a yong woman who was my friend. whenever she would see me she would always stop to say hello. we had great times when we played tennis at cliffcide cc
and member guests tournaments, at tennis party's we used to have
in the old days. moe,jeremy and lauren remember the great days you had with this wonderful lady. she left a beautiful legacy .
my dear friend ellen until we see eachother again upstairs r.i.p.
your friend,
malcolm

From: Alanna Gornish Mrlik and Family

From Rochester Hills, MI

Posted On: February 21, 2014

My dearest family - Uncle Moe, Jeremy and Mitch: I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and mother. My heart aches for your pain. I always admired Aunt Ellen's zest for life and her ability to live life to its fullest. As you know, I spoke with Aunt Ellen just a short time ago and I will remind you and everyone else of her last words to me. "Life is short, eat dessert first." I wish I could be there with you in Connecticut but unfortunately I can not. I am with you in spirit and am always available to talk and offer whatever comfort I can. Love, The Mrlik's in Michigan - Alanna, Jeff, Alexis and Justin

From: Marshall & Sandra Rulnick

From Bloomfield, CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Dearest Ellen, rest in peace. We and all your great friends shall never forget your impact on our lives.

From: Hadass rubin

From Old saybrook, Ct

Posted On: February 21, 2014

I loved Ellen , so sorry to hear about her death.
We met at Shankara 's yoga class and had many fun moments. Best regards to Mo and the children. Hadass Rubin

From: ARLENE and DAN NEIDITZ

From WEST HARTFORD, CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

WE ARE SO SORRY THAT YOU HAVE LOST YOUR DEAREST ELLEN.
WE EXTEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
ARLENE and DAN NEIDITZ

From: dorothy silverherz rosenberg

From avon, ct

Posted On: February 21, 2014

bright, talented, enthusiastic, energetic, purposeful, Ellen will be missed. My deep sympathy to friends and family at this sad and difficult time. Dorothy Silverherz Rosenberg

From: Jay Weber

From Charlotte, NC

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Jeremy, Loren & Mr Banks - So sorry for your loss. Will always remember Mrs. Banks - from rides in her "van", tennis, to just hanging out at 1892 Asylum with you all. Amy and I and our entire family are thinking of you all during this difficult time.

From: Robert Sattin

From St. Petersburg, FL

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Rhonda and I extend our deep condolences to Moe and his family. We have fond memories of Ellen. Her passing is a loss for all who ever met her.

From: Lisa Lenkiewicz

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 21, 2014

Ellen and I worked together for many years at the Jewish Ledger. We had so much fun! She was always so upbeat. I admired her style, her funky jewelry and her grace. She loved to travel, especially to London, and she loved her friends. I will remember Ellen as a wonderful wife and mother--Moe and her sons were her world.
A light has gone out for those of us who loved her.

From: Caren & Bob Distel

From Unionville, CT

Posted On: February 28, 2014

Moe: Caren and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We will miss our friend, Ellen, and wish you the very best. She left us all with fond memories.

From: Robin Santiago

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 27, 2014

Please accept our sincere sympathy at this sad time. May her memory be for a blessing. Robin and Rafi Santiago

From: George J Allgaier

From Savannah, GA

Posted On: February 22, 2014

A patient and loving mother and grandmother. A faithful and supportive wife. May you be in God's glory forever.

From: Arlene Medow

From New York, NY

Posted On: February 22, 2014

Ellen enriched my life and the lives of everyone she touched. Her warmth, intellect, sense of humor and style made her uniquely “Ellen.” I’ll miss the meals we shared together on Ellen’s many visits to New York City, her second home which she loved so much. My deepest sympathies to Moe and family.

May Ellen’s light continue to shine and her soul have eternal life in Heaven.

From: Jerry and Holly Swirsky

From Palm Desert, CA

Posted On: February 22, 2014

We will truly miss our "New York" gal and friend,Ellen.We loved talking theatre and books with Ellen. She was most well read and a devoted to theatre and the fine arts.
Our deepest sympathies go out to Moe and the Banks family.
Rest in Peace,dear Ellen. Jerry/Holly

From: Ruth and David Krugman

From Avon, CT

Posted On: February 22, 2014

Dear Moe and Family,
I was shocked and in tears hearing about Ellen. I did not know she had been ill. Each time we would see each other, and so often it was at The Crown, it was always hugs and smiles laughing and catching up. Her warmth and "personality plus" was always there. She was special and will be missed by everyone who knew her.
Ruth and David Krugman

From: Carol Tuckel

From Stamford, CT

Posted On: February 22, 2014

Dear Ellen: Your zest for life and love of family and friends sustained you through your grueling battle. Your courage was incredible and admirable. Now you will be missed by so many. R.I.P. My deepest condolences to Moe, your sons and family.

From: Carol Tuckel

From Stamford, CT

Posted On: February 22, 2014

Dear Ellen: Your zest for life and love of family and friends sustained you through your grueling battle. Your courage was incredible and admirable. Now you will be missed by so many. R.I.P. My deepest condolences to Moe, your sons and family.

From: Ann Miller

From Bloomfield, Ct

Posted On: February 22, 2014

Dear Moe, having known Ellen for a few short years, she became a friend I will never forget. We loved discussing our love of reading and Star and Mitzie ,and family. She inspiration to all in her fight to live. Ellen will be greatly missed my all who new her and loved her.Our love and thoughts are with you and your family during these sad days. Ann and Albert Miller

From: Ed and Sue Chestler

From Boynton Beach, FL

Posted On: February 22, 2014

We all have lost a wonderful friend. May she rest in peace.
Our thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
Fondly, Chet and Sue

From: joanne perloff

From Hartford, Ct.

Posted On: February 22, 2014

THE PERLOFF FAMILY SEND THE BANKS FAMILY A SAD E-MAIL IN MEMORY OF ELLEN BANKS,A WONDERFUL FRIEND WHO DID NOT DESERVE TO DIE SO YOUNG. MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE AND HER PLESANT MEMORIES ADD JOY TO HER HUSBAND, HER CHILDREN AND FRIENDS.SHE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
LOVE,
JOANNE, HEIDI,HUGH AND LEE PERLOFF

From: Edith and Marvin Catler

From Sarasota, Florida

Posted On: February 23, 2014

Dear Moe; Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Try to recall all the happy, meaningful moments. Edith & Marv

From: Dorothy and David Wetsone

From Farmington, ct

Posted On: February 24, 2014

From: Reesa and Paul Litman

From Boynton Beach, Fla.

Posted On: February 24, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of Ellen's passing. Her presence was felt in the friendships she shared and in her community interaction.
She will be missed. May she rest in peace. Our love to Moe and her family.
Reesa and Paul Litman

From: Irene Ziskin

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 24, 2014

Moe and family - Ellen was "one of a kind" with always a smile and good thing to say. I am so so sorry but at least she is now at peace. IRENE

From: cheryl upton

From middletown, ct

Posted On: February 23, 2014

i am so sorry to year about ellen's passing. i remember her coming in the store (suburban pharmacy), at times with moe.

i believe i am safe to say that my family and i enjoyed talking to ellen. a very nice person she was.

my sincere condolences go out to moe and the family.

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