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Howard

("Howie" David)

Falkin

Obituary

Howard (Howie) David Falkin, 82, of West Hartford, beloved husband, brother, father, grandfather, uncle and loyal friend,passed away on Wednesday, February 1, 2017 at Hartford Hospital with his family by his side. Howie was born in Hartford, CT on November 11, 1934, son of the late Edward and Ruth Falkin. He resided in West Hartford his entire life. He was a graduate of William Hall High School class of 1952 where he was voted class wit and he was a member of the first graduating class of The University of Hartford in 1956. Upon his college graduation, he fulfilled his military obligation to his country by completing six months’ active service and seven years in the reserves.

His entire professional career was spent at Aetna Life & Casualty where he made broadly-based contributions to the company as an executive in both the group and pension divisions. He was on the ground floor in the development of automating pension benefits for the company. He also served on a number of insurance industry committees.

Howie volunteered his time and talents to organizations such as the West Hartford Senior Job Bank, the Better Business Bureau and by performing wedding ceremonies as a Justice of the Peace. He was a member of the Hartford Chorale and he was a lifetime blood donor.

Howie was a renaissance man with a wide range of interests and abilities. He found great pleasure sitting as his piano and swinging his golf clubs on the links. On Mondays and Thursdays, he could be found playing duplicate bridge with favorite partner, his wife, Barbara. He never met a crossword puzzle he couldn’t solve. He loved literature and all things related to technology. He valued the sense of camaraderie and adventure that sailing the seas with Norm and the crew of Arbella brought to him.

He leaves to cherish his memory his beloved wife, Barbara Malley Falkin. In addition, he is survived by his dear sister, Ethel Fried and his loving children and their families; Elise Anne Falkin, John, Alex and Sarah Healy; Leslie and Michael Fialkievicz; David and Margie Malley; Steven, Bonnie, Jacob and Matthew Malley and Kenneth, Sara, Zev, Aaron and Alanna Malley. He also leaves cousins, nieces and nephews as well as Joyce M. Falkin, the mother of Elise and Leslie. He was a constant presence in the lives of his grandchildren, serving both as a guiding beacon and a steadfast anchor.

The family would like to thank the caring staff at Hartford Hospital for the compassionate care Howie received in his final days. Additionally, we are grateful for the special rapport and connection that developed between Howie and Dr. Edward Salerno and Dr. Samuel K. Anyatonwu, which transcended the traditional doctor/patient relationship.

Funeral services will be held on Sunday, February 5, 2017 at 10:00am in the Chapel of the Weinstein Mortuary, 640 Farmington Ave., Hartford,CT with Rabbi James Rosen officiating. Interment will follow in the Congregation Beth Israel Cemetery, 119 Affleck St., Hartford, CT.

Relatives and friends are invited to the family home on Sunday, February 5th from 1:00pm – 4:00pm with a service at 4:00pm and again on Monday, February 6th from 6:30pm – 8:30pm.

Arrangements are entrusted to Weinstein Mortuary, Hartford, CT. For further information, directions, or to sign the guest book for Howard, please visit online at www.weinsteinmortuary.com/funerals.cfm

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Beth El Temple, West Hartford or Taglit Birthright Israel Foundation

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Thursday, January 1, 1970

Service Date:

Thursday, January 1, 1970

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From: Michael Giuffrida

From Wethersfield, CT

Posted On: February 5, 2017

To Howie's family members, my deepest condolences on your loss. Howie was more than a 'boss' when I reported to him in Operations Analyst back at Aetna. He was a mentor, and a true friend. Fair and even-handed in his dealings, forever patient, and always 'guiding' with his advice, never instructional, never ever ever demeaning in any way, to anyone. I marveled at his temperament and learned a ton from being with him. It has been a year+ since we lunched together in West Hartford, but he was often in my thoughts. Society has lost a good man.

From: Ron Gattinella

From Glastonbury, CT

Posted On: February 5, 2017

I met Howie working at the Aetna probably in 1960 or 1961. I was a young high school grad who had lost my father just before starting high school. When I started to work for Howie it was probably 1965. I was going to college while working there and Howie would talk to me with such a gentle voice, guiding me, I think even "fathering " me.
It wasn't until later in life as an adult and a father that his presence in my life was more appreciated. He was so quiet, so smart, a gentleman and a gentle man!
A year or two ago I saw a letter to the editor in the Courant from a Howard Falkin. I looked in the phone book and there were two listings. I wanted to call him to honestly let him know what a positive and lasting impact he had on my life. I am sorry I never did it, so I hope the family reads this and shows it to his children and grandchildren so they hear who this man was and what he was from a different person's life experience.
Bless you all and I truly loved that man.

From: Joan Tinson

From Glastonbury, CT

Posted On: February 5, 2017

My sincerest condolences to all the Falkin family. Memories from so many years ago. Joan Tinson

From: Arline and Stuart

From Bloomfield, CT

Posted On: February 4, 2017

We will always remember Howie's wonderful sense of humor, his inquisitiveness and insight, his extraordinary intelligence, and kindness. We shared so many wonderful times vacationing, playing bridge, and just being together. He will be sorely missed by so many. We truly loved him.

From: BENN ROTHFEDER

From Sun City, AZ

Posted On: February 4, 2017

Goodbye and farewell old pal. We had a good run. Seventy-nine years of friendship and love.

Benn

From: Judy & Al Greenspoon

From Miami Beach, FL

Posted On: February 4, 2017

Dear Barbara and Family,
We extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family on this melancholy occasion. You made a beautiful couple. May he rest in peace.
Love,
Judy and Al Greenspoon

From: Nan Glass

From Durham, NC

Posted On: February 4, 2017

Condolences to all the family on Howie's passing. I know what a treasure he was to all of you,and how important his love and support was to his sister, Ethel Fried. With sympathy, Nan

From: David & Janet Fowler

From Hamden, Connecticut

Posted On: February 4, 2017

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. Thinking of you.

From: Howardand Helen Falk

From New Londo, Ct

Posted On: February 4, 2017

Dear Barbara, Oursincere condolencess to you and your family. I remember when NEFTY" came to my house looking for him.

The other "Howie Falk" (in) and Helen

From another "Howie Falk" and Helen.

From: Jim Durant

From west haven, CT

Posted On: February 3, 2017

My dear friend Howie, you are already sorely missed! I will miss our long conversations during your sessions as well as your wit and laughter! Over the years you became a father image to me and certainly a good friend!

I know this world was a much better place with you in it, and now heaven is :)

I love you my friend!

RIP

jim

From: Brian and Linda Kent

From Linwood, New York

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Barbara
We want you to know we are thinking of you and family. Howie will be missed. We love you and hope to see you soon.

From: Byron Maddox

From Farmington, CT

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Dear Barbara,
We are so sorry to hear the sad news about Howie's passing. He was a wonderful, terrific, and special guy. He will be missed by many. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
-Byron and Becky

From: Gail and Bruce Heald

From West Hartford, Connecticut

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Dear Barbara,
We were so sorry to hear about Howie's passing. He was such a gentleman and had a great sense of humor. We'll miss our bridge games.
Please extend our deepest sympathies to yourself and your family.

Gail and Bruce

From: Ellen Margel Seltzer

From Middletown, CT

Posted On: February 3, 2017

I speak for all of my family who now has Howie joining them. He was a blessing to all who knew him on earth as he will be in the "forever". We will miss his warm and gentle presence. My heartfelt condolences to each of you.

From: Merle & Ron bernstein

From Boca raton, Fl

Posted On: February 3, 2017

So sorry to hear of Howards passing. We are glad we spent time with you both at the Cope's party before we came to Florida. Ron knew Howard from Uconn. Our sincere sympathy to you.

From: Edward kane

From Boynton Beach, FL

Posted On: February 3, 2017

WISH TO CONVEY MY SINCEREST SYMPATHIES TO BARBARA AND HER FAMILIY. WE SHARED MANY HAPPY TIMES TOGETHER AT THE BOOK CLUB, THE GOLF COURSE, OR JUST HANGING OUT.

From: Andrea and Doug Marcou

From Belmont, Massachusetts

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers got out to the whole family. We hope that you will find comfort in special memories in the days to come and know that his legacy will live on. Fondly, Andrea & Doug

From: Bert Berlin

From Longboat Key, Fl

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Barbara and family- our thoughts are with you from a distance, but close in feeling. We lost a gem who had so many talents. So enjoyed his insights at book club, which revealed the depth of his many abilities and interests. Gone but not forgotten.
Ruth and Bert

From: Roz Hahn

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Dear Barbara, We are so saddened by Howie's passing. He was the "partner extraordinaire "!

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Hugs, Roz and Howard Hahn

From: Jill Ruffkess stoner

From West Hartford, Ct

Posted On: February 3, 2017

My heart goes out to you and your family..Howie was larger then life...he was simply a terrific much admired man...rip

From: Dr. Bennett Miller

From Atlantis, FL.

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Barbara, family- Everyone envied you for having such a nice guy for a husband. love, Bennett Miller

From: Margie Brower

From The Villages, Fl

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Dear Barbara, I was so sad to hear of Howard's passing, he was such a special person my condolences to you and all the family. Margie Brower

From: Ronna and Mark Siegal

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Dear Barbara
So sorry to hear your sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Ronna and Mark

From: Arlene Neiditz

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Dear Babara,
We extend our deepest sympathy to you and all of Hiwie's dear ones.
May he Rest In Peace.
Arlene and Dan Neiditz

From: Bob and Rhonda Sattin

From St. Petersburg, FL

Posted On: February 3, 2017

Our condolences to Barbara and the entire family.

Bob and Rhonda Sattin

From: Sheila and Bud Jacobs

From West Hartford, CT

Posted On: February 10, 2017

We send our heartfelt sympathy to Barbara and the family at this sad time.

From: elsa and peter gassner

From sedona, az

Posted On: February 9, 2017

dear Barbara,
We were saddened to hear of the passing of Howard. He was a dear man and we wish to extend our sincere sympathy to you and your family. May all of your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time.
elsa and peter gassner

From: Gloria Gery

From New York, NY

Posted On: February 6, 2017

Howie was a one-of-a-kind gentle, intelligent and caring man. I worked with him for many years at Aetna and he was gracious, generous, committed, capable, loyal and so much more. I am saddened by his passing.

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