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Paul

(D.)

Bernstein

Obituary

Paul D. Bernstein, 67 years of age, of Windsor Locks, passed away on Sunday, April 22, 2012 at home with his loving wife and best friend, Theresa (Sheehan) by his side. Together they shared a home on Denslow Street with their two Shitzus, Ginger and Duke. Born in New Britain, he was the son of the late Milton and Rita (Witkin) Bernstein. Paul was raised in New Britain and Newington and was a 1963 graduate of Newington High School, then went on to attend Leicester College in Leicester, MA. After being recruited by the State of Connecticut’s Division of Special Revenue Agency as an executive assistant, he went on to serve as Special Revenue spokesperson, Legislative Liaison and as Charitable Games Unit Head. As a young man Paul was active in the Republican Party of Newington. He founded the Newington Young Republican Club in 1968 and went on to become Chairman of the First Congressional District Young Republicans. Paul served on the Newington Republican Town Committee from 1968 until 1985. In 1969 Paul served as campaign manager to Elmer Mortensen, Newington’s first Republican Mayor. In 1971 Paul won a Republican primary and went on to serve the first of seven terms on the Newington Town Council. Paul retired from state government on July 1, 2009, with thirty-nine years of service. Paul and Terry enjoyed many fine summer weekends in Ogunquit and Wells Maine area at their seasonal cottage. In addition to his wife Theresa, he is survived by two sisters, Lynne M. Bernstein and her husband Joseph Rouse of San Francisco, CA, and Jill E. White and her husband Clark and niece Morgan White of San Anselmo, CA. Paul is also survived by many aunts,, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews he loved from the Bernstein, Kaufman, Witkin and Sandler families. From Theresa’s family he was surrounded by loving family members of Sheehans, Colones, Bouchards, Sabines, and Fitzpatricks. Funeral services will be held Tuesday, April 24, 2012 at 11:30 am in the Chapel of the Weinstein Mortuary, 640 Farmington Ave., Hartford. Interment will follow in Beth Alom Cemetery, Allen St., New Britain. The family will receive relatives and friends at his home Tuesday following the interment through Thursday evening. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of the donor’s choice. For further information, directions, or to sign the guest book for Paul, please visit online at www.weinsteinmortuary.com/funerals.cfm.

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From: William M Glazer, MD

From Chilmark, Massachusetts

Posted On: April 28, 2012

Paul was a class act. We were friends in Newington High School and I loved driving with him in convertibles that he would own. We enjoyed many visits to Ocean Beach, in New London where we winked at the girls and got back in the car. I've been in touch with Paul's sister Lynne, who was one of my first loves, but I had not talked with Paul recently. My deepest condolences to Paul's family. I will miss him.

From: Christopher Preu

From Louisville, KY

Posted On: April 24, 2012

My most sincere sympathies to Paul's family from a member of his Newington High School class.

From: Joanne and Bill Kaplita

From Wethersfield, ct

Posted On: April 24, 2012

Terry,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

From: Fred Callahan

From Newington, Ct

Posted On: April 24, 2012

My sympathy goes out to the Bernstein Family. I have known Paul for many years in Newington. I can honestly say and other people have said when discussing Paul's death today. The Town of Newington is a much better place to live in today. Because of the efforts of Paul Bernstein. PAUL THANK YOU MAY YOU REST IN PEACE

From: Fred Hart

From Jefferson, MA

Posted On: April 24, 2012

Dear Paul,

We haven't seen nor spoken to each other since our days together at Newington High School, but I have often thought of you throughout the years. I'll now regret not looking you up. I remember when we formed a singing group -- "The Invictas". You were the lead singer, of course, and I was one of three people in the back-up. Like people often say Paul -- those were the days.

You were a very special person as a young man -- a leader with a strong sense of what is right -- and certainly later in your life. My deepest sympathy for your wife and close frends.

From: bud mcmurray

From monterey, ca

Posted On: April 24, 2012

friend from high school. remembered fondly.

From: Richard Thayer

From North Branford, Connecticut

Posted On: April 24, 2012

With Deepest Sympathies to Paul’s family. He was a highly respected and valued colleague and we were all made better by our association with him.

From: Richard and Maureen Embler

From North Haven, CT

Posted On: April 24, 2012

Paul's interests, the things he cared about, the way he lived his life made him truly on-of-a-kind...Someone impossible to forget. Please know that he will be missed. We wish the family faith that fills you with peace and grows ever stronger with each passing day,

With love, Richard & Maureen

From: Bill Rouleau

From Ft. Lauderdale, FL

Posted On: April 24, 2012

Dear Lynne, Jill & Terry,
I am so very, very sorry to hear. Paul was my BEST friend in high school. He was a kind & truely caring gentleman. I have frequently thought of the wonderful times we shared. We drove cars for Milt from Mt Kisco NY one summer. We sang together in the "Invicta's". These memories are now more important and I'll keep them closer to me.
Bill Rouleau

From: Karen White

From Murrells Inlet, SC

Posted On: April 23, 2012

Dear Terry- My sincere sympathy to you and the family at this sad time. May you find peace in happy memories.
Karen White

From: Dianna Orvis

From Newington, CT

Posted On: April 23, 2012

I have fond memories working for Paul at Special Revenue as a temporary employee. He always encouraged me to work for the State which I continued to after leaving Special Revenue. My condolences to Terry and his family.

From: Jack & Joanne Cotter

From North Fort Myers, Florida

Posted On: April 23, 2012

Terry & Bernstein family,
We are deeply sorry to hear about Paul's death. Our thoughts and prayers were with Paul ever since we had learned of his illness. I'll always remember Paul as the consummate gentleman and caring, dedicated individual. Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Jack Cotter

From: Joseph & Joella Mudry

From Bristol, CT

Posted On: April 22, 2012

Our sincere condolences in the loss of your loved one. Our prayers are with you in this time of your sorrow.

From: Deborah Carter

From oakdale, ct

Posted On: April 22, 2012

From: Louis Horner Jr

From West Haven, Ct

Posted On: April 25, 2012

With Deepest Sympathies to Paul’s family.

From: Ret. Chief William Farrell NHPD

From Madison, Ct.

Posted On: April 23, 2012

Paul was a good friend and a fine associate,as we served on The Gaming Policy Board. May He Rest in Peace.
Bill Farrell

From: Eleanor Simonides

From Newington,

Posted On: April 23, 2012

My sympathy goes out to Terry and Paul's family. He was truly a nice person and I have fond memories of him and Terry as they worked for Special Revenue and I worked at the Lottery. My wishes are for Terry to keep his fond memories close to her heart and remember those wonderful times together.

From: Tom Rotunda

From Longs, SC

Posted On: April 23, 2012

Terry,

My prayers are with you and your family...I enjoyed working with Paul, and appreciated his help. HE WILL BE MISSED.

My Best To You.....Tom

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