My dearest Lois, Mark, Ronna, Barry, Judy,Coleman and Judy,
I had just returned from a trip when I heard that Howard had passed away the week prior, and even though I knew how difficult his struggles were in the most recent past, I couldn't help but sit down and cry for his loss. There was something so warm and wonderful about him and the friendship he showed to everyone around him. His countless acts of generosity will most certainly leave a legacy for generations to come. I knew him as a lovely, sweet and very kind person. When Lois came into his life, I felt that she was his gift for a life spent thinking about others. Lois, I know how you felt about each other, and how you cared for him in the final days. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of mourning.
Please accept my sincerest sympathies,
Bobsie

To Lois and the entire Siegal family,

I was deeply affected by the news about Howie. I grew up on Brightview Drive around the corner from his home on Farmstead Lane in West Hartford, and he was my best friend. We were in the nursery school set when we bonded. I was a year older than Howie, and we got along tremendously.

We liked to play cowboy and soldier games (it wasn't frowned upon then), and we watched TV (it was exciting to watch the Three Stooges on big black and white sets) and explored our suburban neighborhood together. Once we got in big trouble for breaking some windows at a construction site on Farmstead. If he got punished for that one, as I did, sorry, Howie - it was my fault for leading you into the crime. I have since reformed.

After high school, I moved away from Connecticut. Howie and I spoke infrequently through the years and the distance, but I have always remembered with fondness my time with Howie running (literally) around West Hartford, playing ball, sharing our toys and going to Bishop's Corner to the Woolworth's lunch counter to have hot dogs. Those were the days, and I will never forget the best friend I shared them with.

To the entire Siegal clan, I extend my heartfelt condolences.

Dear Siegal Family,
We were so very sorry to read of Howard's passing.
Our deepest sympathies to you all.
We will have Howard's name read from the bimah of Temple Shalom and our entire congregation will say kaddish for him.
Love,
Marilyn and Alan Byer
The Villages, Florida

just heard about this tragic event today. so sorry.

I was sorry to learn of Howard's passing. We were business associates for many years. He had a big heart and was a pleasure to work with. He will be missed.

Dear Lois,
I am so sorry to hear about Howard, shocked in fact.
He is a true "mensch". We went to high school together and I remember him fondly from that time in our lives. Always happy to stop and chat with me. Most recently I would see Howard when he came to the store to buy you something.
He is generous with his heart and soul.
Big Hug, Pamela

Mark & Barry, my deepest sympathy. After over 10 years of enjoying your friendships,and business, Howard was a great person to work with.

Wayne & Nancy Arnold

Howard will always be remembered and honored for the many contributions he made to the community in which he lived.We know his loss will be deeply felt. May his memory be for a blessing. With sincere sympathy for your loss. Robin and Rafi

Dear Lois,It is with great sadness that we read of Howard's death.We did not know him personally but his contribution to the community at large, is well known. May the legacy he leaves behind bring you consolation and peace and may you find comfort in the years ahead remembering the life you shared. Evelyn and Bob Harris

Dear Lois and the entire Siegal Family...I am so saddened to hear about Howard, he was such a sweet guy...always. Howard and I became friends after college when we met in a group at the JCC. He was always so kind and dear and a true gentleman. He had a gentle way in which he made everyone feel special. He was a gifted "people person" who loved to laugh and have a great time. Most of all he loved all of you so much...you were his life. His beautiful wife and cherished family. Howard will be missed by everyone who was touched by his kindness. I am out of town, but my thoughts and love are with all of you. Much love, Jackie

The,most caring,giving ,and beautiful person ...

To the best "Yankee Fan" I ever knew. I will miss driving you to Yankee Stadium.

Lois, Judie, Barry & Mark,

Although we are miles away we share the loss of your beloved Howard. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Ellen & Joel

We love and Miss him

Henry. Linda and Zoe

Howard was a wonderful business associate for many years. He was a kind and true gentleman. I am happy his suffering has ended.I will miss him.
Larry Feldman

So sorry to hear of Howard's passing. He was a kind person and we were fortunate to know him.
Our sincere condolences go out to the Siegal family.
Kevin and Jodi Keene

Dear Lois & Siegal Family,
Deepest sympathies on the loss of Howard so eloquently honored today in the Hartford Courant and throughout his life.
With sincere sympathy,
Linda DiNapoli

God saw that you were getting tired,And a cure was not to be, So he put his arms around you And whispered, "Come to me" With tearful eyes we watched you, And saw you pass away. Although we loved you dearly we could not make you stay. A Golden heart stopped beating, Hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the Best...Rest in Peace Howard.

GOODBYE MY FRIEND
Though we met for a brief season, I knew it was for a reason.
You were kind hearted, compassionate, considerate, caring, and giving...
One of the nicest person I have ever met; Now you are gone, and I will miss you.
I will miss your intelligence, your dry sense of humor, and your smile,
But friends never really say goodbye, we will meet again, so until then,
Farewell my friend.
PS. Tell Mickey Mantle hello for me!!!

Dear Siegal family,
We are out of town, and read of Howard's death. Our heartfelt sympathies are with you all. He was a very special guy, who did very special things during his time on this earth. May his memory always be as a blessing. David & Bobby Klau

Howard was a genuine mensch. A sweet and gentle person who was very committed to Lois, his family, his friends and the Jewish community. May his soul rest in heaven with all the other good souls who have gone before. Howard will be missed by all who were lucky enough to have been touched by him.

Dear Lois:

I was so saddened to hear of Howard's passing. I know he struggled for a long time with his illness. He will be truly missed by us and hundreds of other people. He was a wonderful person with a gentle soul. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to call. We love you.

Fondly,
Rosemary and Lee

Dear Judy and the entire Siegal Family

Am so sorry to hear about your loss...My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time....

Gloria Azia

Howard was so deeply committed to the Jewish community and always sought ways to make it strong, challenged leaders to be better and flourish. He had a big heart and cared so much.
We mourn his passing.

Cindy Chazan and Jay Leipzig

So Sorry to hear of your loss. There is not much one can say at this time; but please accept my sincere condolences.